The Freed Black Girl Podcast

Vulnerability healed my addictions and saved my life.
Every woman I can trace on my maternal line died from addictions or addiction-related illness before the age of 65.
My mother at 44.Her mother at 55.Her mother at 53.And my maternal aunt at 65.
Overdose. Heart disease. Obesity. Smoking. Alcohol-related illness.
Breaking this cycle required my willingness to be radically honest with myself — and to ask for help.
I often think of Nikki Giovanni’s words:“At any point, you have to know who wanted you to live.”
These women gave me the strength to choose life.
Through journaling, therapy, and seven years of somatic healing, I began confronting the ways I numbed pain through alcohol, cannabis, overachievement, and emotional armor. This episode explores what it means to finally release those coping mechanisms and trust that the wound can close.
This episode is about remembering that vulnerability is not weakness — it is the doorway to freedom.
In this episode, I explore:
• How vulnerability creates space for healing and transformation• Why life’s hardest moments can break us open to deeper alignment• The connection between trauma, numbing behaviors, and addiction patterns• What seven years of somatic healing taught me about releasing coping mechanisms• How revisiting old journal entries reveals the evolution of your healing journey
Journal with me:
• When was a time you wished you had been more vulnerable?• What words once felt trapped in your throat?• What would you say to a past version of yourself now?• How can you practice vulnerability with yourself first?
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Lessons from Liberation | Devotion vs. DisciplineThe Freed Black Girl Podcast
Lessons from Liberation is a mini-episode series on what I’ve learned about what comes after freedom.
In this episode, I reflect on the difference between discipline and devotion — and how healing from childhood physical, emotional, and psychological abuse transformed the way I move through my life, creativity, and self-trust.
When punishment, fear, and perfectionism are tied to safety, it can leave us struggling in adulthood with anxiety, self-doubt, avoidance, overachievement, and shame.
I share how growing up in an environment where discipline was enforced through violence and emotional manipulation created patterns that followed me into adulthood — and how seven years of somatic healing helped me begin to release the trauma stored in my body.
This episode is about reclaiming softness after violence, learning to trust yourself again, and understanding that what kept you safe as a child may no longer serve you as you heal and grow.
In this episode, I explore:
• How childhood physical abuse can shape the nervous system and sense of safety• Why perfectionism, overachievement, and avoidance are common trauma responses• The difference between survival-based discipline and devotion rooted in care• How somatic healing can help release trauma stored in the body• Why softness, rest, play, and self-trust are essential parts of healing
Journal with me:
• What messages did you receive about discipline growing up?• How did punishment shape your relationship with yourself?• What does safety feel like in your body today?• What would it look like to treat yourself with devotion instead of punishment?• How will you care for and protect your inner child?
✨ New episodes of Lessons from Liberation drop weekly.
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Enjoy a replay this week. This episode originally aired in October 2024. It is, perhaps, even more relevant now than it was then. 
This episode is about embodying the change we seek. Are we ready to receive our dreams or are we asking for things we haven’t demonstrated the capacity to hold? Are you feeling like leaving your old way of living behind and starting out in a new direction?
Maybe something you've never seen personally before up close? I feel like a lot of us are experiencing this right now. I am, again. It can be scary to dream if that's the story you have told yourself, but how do we know if we're even ready to receive all the things we dream of? Can we really ever be fully ready?
These are the questions rolling around in my mind so I want to share some things I'm learning along the way!

Lessons from Liberation | The Griot & Healing Power of MusicThe Freed Black Girl Podcast
Lessons from Liberation is a mini-episode series on what I’ve learned about what comes after freedom.
In this episode, I reflect on music as medicine — as ancestral memory, nervous system regulation, and a portal back to creativity.
Building on last week’s conversation about stepping into the light when it feels uncomfortable, this episode explores what it means to turn toward sound instead of fear — to let rhythm move blocked emotions and allow music to tell the stories our bodies already know.
I share how returning to the piano during the pandemic unlocked new levels of creativity — from launching my first business to starting this podcast — and how following a thread through my Ancestry DNA led me to Mali, home of the griot: the hereditary storyteller, musician, and living archive of the community.
This episode is about remembering that creativity is not random. It is lineage.
In this episode, I explore:
• How music regulates the nervous system and creates safety in the body• The pentatonic scale as the foundation of gospel, blues, and R&B• The griot tradition of Mali and its connection to Black American music• How the pandemic forced stillness that unlocked ancestral memory• Why following creative nudges may be a form of spiritual guidance
Journal with me:
• How has music healed you?• What ancestral gifts are waiting for your attention?• Where are you being nudged to create?• What is your relationship with creativity — and how can you nurture it?
✨ New episodes of Lessons from Liberation drop weekly.
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Lessons from Liberation is a mini-episode series on what I’ve learned about what comes after freedom.
In this episode, I reflect on what happens after compassion. After tending to your inner child. After learning to hold yourself with care.
There comes a moment when you get to choose to stand in the light. The light doesn’t just illuminate the world around you. It reveals what’s inside of you too. The brilliance. The shadow. The fear. The power.
In this episode, I explore:
What it means to choose the light
The difference between visibility and external validation
Walking toward fear instead of away from it
How curiosity helps dissolve fear of the unknown
Why authenticity begins with seeing yourself clearly
Journal with me:
Shine a light on you. Who are you — beyond your roles?
What is your relationship with being seen as your authentic self?
When do you feel the most seen?
What would you choose if you weren’t afraid of the light?
What are you still healing that you are afraid to let others see?
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Lessons from Liberation | Compassionate Self-ParentingThe Freed Black Girl Podcast
Lessons from Liberation is a mini-episode series on what I’ve learned about what comes after freedom.
In this episode, I reflect on compassion as a practice of self-parenting — especially for those of us who learned early that love was conditional, tied to performance, achievement, or being “easy” to love.
Building on last week’s conversation about taking off the mask and welcoming our gifts, this episode explores what can arise after that moment of awakening: shame, urgency, pressure to be healed, and the belief that we must be perfect to be worthy of what’s next.
I share a personal story and visualization that helped me realize I had been rushing ahead in my healing, dragging my inner child along, instead of slowing down and holding her with care.
This episode is about choosing compassion over shame, devotion over discipline, and presence over perfection.
In this episode, I explore:
What compassionate self-parenting actually looks like
How shame disguises itself as “self-improvement”
Why numbing behaviors are often signals, not failures
The difference between healing with pressure vs. healing with care
How compassion can unlock creativity, safety, and forward movement
Journal with me:
How was compassion modeled for you growing up?
How do you speak to yourself when things get messy?
What does a compassionate mother or father feel like to you?
Where are you still waiting to be perfect before you allow yourself to receive?
How might your life change if compassion — not shame — led the way?
✨ New episodes of Lessons from Liberation drop weekly.
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Lessons from Liberation | Episode: The Integration — Gifts On, Masks OffThe Freed Black Girl Podcast
Lessons from Liberation is a mini episode series on what I’ve learned about what comes after freedom.
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In this episode of Lessons from Liberation, I reflect on what it means to stop fragmenting ourselves to survive and begin living as our whole selves. Drawing from my blog post on The Freedom Pages, I explore the idea of “integration” — releasing the masks we’ve worn for safety, approval, and belonging, and choosing instead to exist as all of who we are at once.
This episode is centered on self-trust and wholeness: understanding the difference between masks and boundaries, honoring our intuitive and ancestral gifts, and learning how to move forward without leaving parts of ourselves behind.
Drawing from reflection and ancestral memory, I share:
• Why wearing different masks for different spaces keeps us from evolving whole• The difference between boundaries and hiding• How survival shaped the versions of ourselves we learned to be• Why integration is both liberating and scary• How our spiritual and creative gifts are part of our purpose• What it means to be seen without abandoning yourself
This episode also includes reflection questions for you—especially if you’re in a season of shedding old identities and learning how to trust who you really are.
Journal with me:
• What parts of yourself have you kept on the shelf to feel safe or accepted?• Where in your life are you ready to stop splitting yourself in pieces?• What gifts are you done hiding or running from?• How do you know when you are setting a boundary versus wearing a mask?• What would it look like to move forward as your whole self?
✨ New episodes of Lessons from Liberation drop weekly.

Lessons from Liberation | Episode 3: The Game of LifeThe Freed Black Girl Podcast
Lessons from Liberation is a mini episode series on what I’ve learned about what comes after freedom.
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In this episode of Lessons from Liberation, I reflect on what happens after the leap—when you’re in a new space, feeling unsure, and looking for a map that doesn’t exist. Drawing from my blog post The Game of Life on The Freedom Pages, I explore what it means to realize the answer was never meant to come from a map.
This episode is centered on trust and movement: getting out of the menu and into the game, remembering that our ancestors already walked this terrain and left wisdom for us to use now.
Drawing from reflection and ancestral memory, I share:
Why the path only appears as you move
How fear keeps us frozen instead of playing
What it means to be guided instead of directed
Why our ancestors want to be in relationship with us
How their courage still teaches us how to live, love, and choose
This episode also includes reflection questions for you—whether you’re feeling isolated in a new chapter or standing at the edge of something unknown.
Journal with me:
What examples do you have in your lineage of your ancestors’ courage and bravery?
If you don’t know those stories, who can you ask?
What would you try if you knew you couldn’t fail?
How do you define failure? Is it failure if you learn and move forward?
What permission are you waiting on to begin your new journey?
Where do you feel fear in your body when you think about the unknown?
✨ New episodes of Lessons from Liberation drop weekly.
 
 
 

Lessons from Liberation | Episode 2: Quantum LeapingThe Freed Black Girl Podcast
Lessons from Liberation is a mini episode series on what I’ve learned about what comes after freedom.
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In this second episode of Lessons from Liberation, I reflect on what comes after surrender—when the path disappears and you’re asked to leap anyway. Drawing inspiration from the show Quantum Leap, I explore what it means to wake up in a new timeline while still remembering your old life.
This episode is centered on release and trust: letting go of old identities, survival strategies, and scripts that no longer fit so you can fully enter what’s next.
Drawing from a blog post I wrote in real time last year on The Freedom Pages, I share:
What it feels like to leap without a map
Why freedom requires releasing who you used to be
How we often wait for others to tell us who we are
What it means to trust yourself, Spirit, and the unknown
Why you’ve likely leapt before—and can do it again
This episode also includes reflection questions for you—whether you’re standing at the edge of a new beginning or already mid-leap.
Journal with me:
When have you leapt before, even when you were afraid?
What old identity or attachment is it time to release?
What comfort is that attachment providing?
What would it look like to choose evolution instead of repeating the same cycle?
What is the best that could happen if you let go and fly?
✨ New episodes of Lessons from Liberation drop weekly.

Lessons from Liberation | Episode 1: The SurrenderThe Freed Black Girl Podcast
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In this first episode of Lessons from Liberation, I open a new chapter of The Freed Black Girl Podcast by reflecting on what comes after the stage of healing—when you’ve left the cave, but the world feels loud & unfamiliar.
This episode is centered on surrender: learning how to get still, make space, and listen for what’s trying to reach you. Drawing from a blog post I wrote in real time last year on The Freedom Pages blog, I share:
What I learned after stepping away from a familiar career
How stillness unlocked creativity, play, and ancestral memory
Why freedom requires space
And how surrender became a practice, not a collapse
This episode also includes reflection questions for you—whether you’re still fighting your way through the cave or emerging into a new world of possibility.
Journal with me:
What is your relationship with stillness?
How do you avoid being alone with your own thoughts?
What might be trying to reach you if you made more space?
✨ New episodes of Lessons from Liberation drop weekly.